Friday, June 1, 2007

disjointed?

every time i think i can stop blogging, i come back. writing is so therapeutic for me. i can't remember a significant life event that i haven't recorded somewhere and come back to reflect on later. it's just how i roll.i've been sewing my little heart out, despite sewing over my finger (oh yeah, straight through, bent needle stuck under the nail and all) and having to scrap two very important and time-sensitive projects. i looked at my sewing room one day a few weeks ago and realized i should really be using the fabric i've diligently collected. several quilts, diapers and bags later, i've barely made a dent but at least i've got something to show, right?i've also been snapping pictures like crazy.He has blessed me well.all the other girls are stars, you're the northern lights.proof that my kids wear clothes occasionally.bath!mama's little treehugger.

Sunday, April 1, 2007

busy days!

i've been so inspired lately by everything. warm weather begged for a new clothesline, so i hung one. check it out!diapers drying on the line!i've also been working on my house a little bit. bits and pieces, nothing cohesive yet. this isn't just another house. this is home. this is where i'm raising my babies, so i want to make it my own. here are some peeks at what i've done recently.hallway built-in with family photos. recently painted.a peek through my new curtains in the bedroom.

busy days!

i've been so inspired lately by everything. warm weather begged for a new clothesline, so i hung one. check it out!diapers drying on the line!i've also been working on my house a little bit. bits and pieces, nothing cohesive yet. this isn't just another house. this is home. this is where i'm raising my babies, so i want to make it my own. here are some peeks at what i've done recently.hallway built-in with family photos. recently painted.a peek through my new curtains in the bedroom.

babyhawk review

i've always been a simple gal. as a general rule, anything with bells and whistles makes my head spin. for a long time, i hesitated to buy a mei tai or wrap because i was convinced wearing it would be a very involved process. tie this, wrap this, pull this, tighten this, pretty bow, WHOA. i'd be much happier throwing a pouch over my shoulder and calling it good, mmkay?... then i found my babyhawk mei tai.first, let me say i'm not being paid to do this and i have no affiliations with the company. i just love, love, LOVE the product and i know many mamas would appreciate a real review of anything that might make their day easier.i have a babyhawk mei tai with a padded headrest and reversible print. the prints are "framed" with the strap color which gives the carrier a very finished look. the straps aren't too wide, meaning mamas with "shallow shoulders" aren't weighed down by them. they're lightly padded but not stiff. they're floppy enough to make it feel comfortable. the straps are long enough to fit me (5'4" and average weight) and my husband (6'0" and just over 200 pounds) with ease. i can actually wrap the waist straps twice to tie in front which is helpful because i have a serious lack of coordination.the babyhawk folds relatively small. i can stuff it in a diaper bag as easily as i would a jacket or sweater. the straps can be a bit cumbersome and when i use it outside of the house, i find myself dragging the straps around as i stand outside my car and try to transfer baby from her carseat to the carrier. luckily, the carrier is washable.PROS:- easy to use. the straps look complicated but it's just one strap around the waist and two criss-crossed over your back and tied under baby's butt.- very cute. they've got tons of prints to choose from and lots of strap colors. if i could afford it, i'd have one for each day of the week.- versatile. you can do a front carry, hip carry or back carry and the headrest means even newborns will be snug in the carrier.- quick turnaround. i ordered my mei tai, a full custom, and had it 10 days later.CONS:- expensive. like many popular carriers, this one is a wee bit spendy. with the "extras," like a headrest and reversible print, i paid $90 + shipping for my babyhawk.- doesn't fold flat. if you've used a pouch or ring sling, you know how easy it is to toss in a diaper bag. this is a little bulkier.- nearly impossible to nurse in. okay, some women can make it work but it requires undoing the straps, moving baby lower, repositioning and tying and repeating when baby is done with the boob. not exactly whip it out and go.overall, i'd give this a four out of five. it's easy, cute and fun. i can wear my 12 pound baby and 30 pound toddler with ease and look good doing it, too.

tattoos and the bible

as a forward, i'll say that i am a christian and i mean absolutely NO disrespect to those whose opinions differ from mine. i'm simply sharing my opinion so i hope it can be taken respectfully and without causing a riot.the stigma of being tattooed is fast fading with notable exceptions. the mainstream popularity of tattooing has brought forth the argument of whether or not "good christians" can be tattooed or whether this is prohibited by the bible. popular criticisms include those surrounding the argument that our bodies are simply on loan from god and that we're obligated to return them without any decoration and that tattooing is intrinsically evil and originates from pagan rituals.the most well-known bible passage regarding the issue is from the book of leviticus, 19:28. it reads: "You shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor tattoo any marks on you: I am the LORD." other translations substitute the word tattoo with incise or carve, and the word cut with slash or gash. for the sake of this piece, i'll use the king james version, quoted above. though obviously incorrect, this is by FAR the most commonly used translation used by christians condemning tattoos.to better understand why this argument is trash, the etymology of the word tattoo needs to be clear. the word tattoo is a polynesian word. this word only entered the english language after james cook's voyages to tahiti in the eighteenth century. while the practice of tattooing obviously existed long before then, the word was only discovered and adopted by the english language then. therefore, the word tattoo appearing in leviticus 19:28 is simply a product of rewritten versions of the bible. this is significant because of the subjectivity of the actual practice being referred to in the bible.as a bit of background, the levitican law was created to save israelites by forcing them to adhere to the strict standards of the law, to keep them from practicing idolatry or "false religions." levitius 19:28 refers to the ancient ritual of carving markings in the skin to worship of the soul of a dead family member. the ritual was performed by cutting the flesh and rubbing ash into it and it served as a constant reminder of the death. mourning was a normal and acceptable part of ancient middle eastern culture.fast forward to modern christian religion. now, amongst many christian churches, death is no longer seen as the end of life. in fact, it's seen as the beginning of a new chapter -- the afterlife. bingo! now the practice of tattooing a mark in memory of the deceased is really marking the start of a new chapter in the dearly beloveds journey toward eternal salvation. the idea behind the ancient ritual is lost, completely.that's the long version. the short version is that the laws of leviticus were overthrown in galatians 3:23-24 and replaced with the new law, one meant to encourage praising god because of faith, rather than for fear of punishment. the law of leviticus condoned brutal stoning and slaughters, hardly the message of peace that jesus spread. simple answer? modern christianity doesn't recognize the law of leviticus as valid.so what DOES the bible say? the bible tells us to spread the Word freely, to display our faith. that brings me to 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price; therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." first of all, in context, the passage refers to prostitution and sexual deviance, not skin markings. regardless, it's clear that the temple is meant to serve the purpose of glorifying god. it's crystal clear, right? we obtained our bodies as a result of christ's sacrifice and it's our responsibility to use it appropriately. moreover, we're told to use our spirit to spread the message as well.my point is that tattoos are a conversation piece and always will be. it's hard to look at someone's tattoos without asking their significance. they're beautiful and usually visible and just an amazing piece of art to be admired. anyone tattooed is likely very proud of his or her tattoos and would willingly share their stories and the meaning behind each and every one of them, assuming you're willing to give them the time of day. i'm willing to bet that in almost every case, there is SOME meaning behind the tattoos and no matter how "vulgar" or "morbid" the design -- in quotes because i've yet to see any tattoo i consider vulgar. i find beauty in personal pain overcome and the strength in finding yourself and showing the world exactly WHO YOU ARE -- and for the christian, these stories are a direct reflection of their faith. that's not to say that the true meaning of the tattoo was inspired by faith. our faith in god is constantly tested and even doubted from time to time. this isn't a sign of weakness but one of questioning and discovery. by sharing our stories and explaining the significance of our tattoos, we spread the word. the word god doesn't even need to be mentioned in a conversation to be a spiritual glorification. in this respect, tattoos can be seen as an unorthodox means of evangelism.while my position is clear, there will always be opponents and always be the defense by every beautiful, spirited, defiant soul who is covered in art. there isn't an issue today that can't be brought to court by the interpreters of the bible, scholars and illiterate alike -- and tattoos are just the latest victim to be brought to the table. there are minds that will never be changed but if you truly want to practice the word in all it's glory, look to the message of peace. "And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4. why waste our time on petty disputes? i'd say tattoos are the least of our worries, really. those with the strongest faith will find peace in spreading a message of love, not bickering over external appearance of our brothers and sisters.